5 stars
A fantastic read both in helping children understand and practice consent, and in reminding adults of ways to respect children’s boundaries and their right to consent when appropriate.
The book is broken down into short chapters, each of which covers an aspect of consent. This includes both giving consent and establishing boundaries, as well as respecting the boundaries others have set. A few topics covered are the basics of bodily autonomy, asking for consent and being clear when giving it, one’s ability to change one’s mind at any time, and what to do when someone crosses your boundaries.
While there is a lot of information, Brian presents it all in an age-appropriate way, complete with fun illustrations and fonts, humorous comics and asides that still get the message across, and general positivity. At times things get a bit heavy, but they’re followed up with a positive and offer reassurances and a way forward. In particular, a section I found especially well done was the one on someone overstepping your boundaries and the reassurance that it is not your fault.
The book also offers exceptions to the idea of you being the ruler of your own body, usually when it comes to safety. However, Brian also empowers readers (and reminds adults) that they can have some say in these situations such as pointing out someone’s holding their hand too tight when they’re crossing the street. It’s a great way to balance safety and bodily autonomy.
A fantastic resource for teaching and understanding consent. The overall message empowers readers while also reminding them of their responsibility to respect others. Very well done. Entertaining and informative. What a great resource for kids.